a friendly descriptor for a goofy person who is funny and or mildly annoying simultaneously

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.

This a flamboyant male who roams from town to town in the greater Boston area preying on women because he is so insecure about his own sexuality. He tends to date out of his league just to try and prove he's straight. He is exetremy careless about his extracurricular activities and is willing to take the closest big black male into a restroom.