A play on words/euphemism in place of get laid that one, most often a douche or frat boy, uses after putting on a lei. This can happen in Hawai'i, but it most often occurs at tropical/tiki themed parties.

n. The birth name of somebody who has changed their name. Most commonly attributed to trans people, but can be attributed to any person who has changed their name. (sometimes written as two words: dead name)

v. 1. To call somebody by their deadname.
v. 2. To out somebody's deadname to the public.

What a lustful stud naively expects to do with the lovely native belle who smilingly puts a necklace of flowers around his neck when he steps ashore on one of the Hawaiian islands.