when someone says, ftll they mean "fuck the love life" people usually use this abbreviation when their love life has gone to shit, or is going to shit. or if they just don't have a love life at all.

v. collectively or individually finding someone/something to blame for a problem, as opposed to brainstorming which connotes finding solutions to a problem

n. the act of finding someone/something to blame for a problem

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