what you get when the guy you just met on eHarmony turns out to be a big tool.

Referring to women who are sexually or romantically attracted to other women. Applies to both lesbians and bisexual women, as it is only the same-sex attraction that matters, not any other attractions the women may have.

Originates from the Greek poet Sappho, a bisexual woman from the Isle of Lesbos, from which we get the term lesbian.

The result of meeting and/or dating someone on eHarmony who turns out to be a huge tool/douchebag/broham.