Sexual play that is very extreme in nature. Said to be on the edge of safety and sometimes even sanity. Can be very dangerous if not practiced correctly.

Ex: breathplay, bloodplay, humiliation play, Total Power Exchange (TPE), rape roleplay.

1. The default beliefs installed when you were a child.

2. An unexamined position you absorbed from your environment growing up.

refers to rough and deviant sex play, intercourse and foreplay

Sexual play which is an extreme form of BDSM, generally the two partners agree to not set a 'safety word' and gives total power to the dominant over the submissive. Results can include minor/major permanent injuries, or death if not practiced correctly.

Many forms of this are around, breathplay (erotic asphyxiation), knifeplay (playing with knives), gunplay (guns), blood/cutting play (deliberate cuts to draw blood).

Not often seen and praticed but generally most people who pratice this, do so in a consensual way.

Playfully stroking, proding, or caressing anywhere on a woman from the labia to the inner thigh with your erect, twitching cock, prior to full penetration.

If the mood is right and you are well practiced, your girl will be driven wild, since the act of postponing full penetration only adds to the overall anticipation.