1. Term used to describe a routinely bad lay. Coined from the observance of a friend with a bad girlfriend who he is unable to break up with and unconciously bangs on a cyclic basis.

2. When sex becomes a choir and not a pleasure
Dude where is Jman? I thought we were going to go the that party.

Nah he is out doing the L with his girfriend Laura.
by kabman January 17, 2009
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