Coined by Dani Campbell, the lesbian runner-up on MTV's bisexual dating show "A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila." Used to describe straight women who 'would turn gay for' or who 'never felt that way about a woman' before they saw Dani.

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.