comes from Cole knowels, a blatant homosexual. Cole style involves shoving hot coals into a womans sexual organs, and her liking it so much she doesnt know when to stop or keep going.

v. collectively or individually finding someone/something to blame for a problem, as opposed to brainstorming which connotes finding solutions to a problem

n. the act of finding someone/something to blame for a problem

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