Another term (alt: sissy bar) for the vertical fender strut, passenger handhold combo on some, mostly custom choppers & other motorcycles, referring to the almost exclusive female designation of the rear passenger of said chopper; i.e: the bar that the bitch hangs on to.

When the “crush” has no intentions of taking things further, but they like the attention. So they flirt here or there, send dm/texts just to keep the person interested, knowing damn well they’re staying single.