Locked inescapably in a life that is undesirable and difficult to tolerate. You live at home and you are 30, you are rapidly losing friends and you hate yourself so you don't want to spend time with the ones you have left, you are technically bankrupt, you can not get a hard on, you are afraid to go out in the street and you have no job.

v. collectively or individually finding someone/something to blame for a problem, as opposed to brainstorming which connotes finding solutions to a problem

n. the act of finding someone/something to blame for a problem

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