If Your Name Is Zephira, You are one tough cookie but you tend to only let a few people see you soft but your a great person and also a great partner in life who also tends to have great style.

Briefly, "the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own." Originally from the Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows, which has a lot more beautiful neologism definitions like this you might enjoy.