A person who does X for a living. They are not passionate about X. They do it 8 hours a day, then go home and forget they did X for 8 hours that day.

The two states of being are as a human being, or a hungry ghost. Semi-regularly you need to ask yourself which you are. Sometimes it is human. Others, alas, it is hungry ghost.

The hungry ghost seeks validity outside of themselves. Someone pining for an indifferent ex is a hungry ghost. Someone who arrives alone at 6:30 on Saturday night to a pub is probably a hungry ghost. Obsessive checking of mobile phones, chat sites or networks are clear signs that one is a hungry ghost.

The best thing to do is just stay home and ride it out. Read a book. Find some good clean fun.

Xer is a term that means "Wo"

A person who doesn't let go of his or her x.

Sometimes swapped out with Xis, or his/her when the gender of the person/thing in question is found out. Xer is a determiner or pronoun used when the gender of the subject in question is unknown.

Heres a small table for reference

She, Her, Hers.
He, Him, His.
Xhi, Xer, Xers. (Prons. Zee, Zher, Zers.)
Xe, Xim, Xis. (Prons. Zee, Zim, Zis.)

They are gender-neutral pronouns, so use them for new gendered people.