A wretchy-crumb is a word to describe an elite person who is absolutely class. However you can’t just become a wretchy-crumb, it has to be confirmed by one of the OG wretchy-crumbs.

Briefly, "the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own." Originally from the Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows, which has a lot more beautiful neologism definitions like this you might enjoy.