When a person named Vann, is so unaware of others' feelings that he often molests them.

-note: for anyone else this would be manhandling, or manhandled, but if a Vann performs this on you or your friends often it can be claimed: Vannhandled.

A portmanteau of carpe diem, a Latin phrase that means “Seize the Day!” and DM, which stands for Direct Messages. This word means seizing the day via DMs.