the term used in the gay community for the presumed tendency lesbians have of quickly moving together after dating for a short period of time. See U-haul lesbian.
Although not unique to lesbian couples, this behavior is stereotypically attributed to lesbians.
The comedian Lea DeLaria joked:

Q: What does a lesbian bring on the second date?

A: A U-haul.
The U-haul joke symbolizes the lesbian urge to merge.
by Johanna Karlsson June 16, 2008
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The feeling one gets after taking a satisfying dump.
After sitting on the toilet for 3 hours and eliminating 3 bowls of 3-alarm chili, Jose finally satisfied his purge urge.
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what feminists think all men constantly have.
"The reason guys play video games all the time is because it is stimulating enough and holds a lot of cognitive attention to distract men from rape urges. It takes the 'thrill' away for a while so they can control their testosterone and urge to rape.
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When two lesbians get together, and almost instananeously become THE SAME FUCKING PERSON.
trumpet and jeni got dat baaaaad urge to merge lolololol111!
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encour-urge is an urgent encouragement...it is a strong suggestion, an urgent plea to follow suit!!!!
I encour-urge you to stop senseless consumption of goods that you do not need in order to survive.

I encour-urge you to start being more eco/enviro conscious because it is urgent that everyone be implored to care about our planet!!!!
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