A term often used in the BDSM lifestyle when chatting online to explain ones sexual preference in doms. This term is generally only used by shy male subs when seeking a partner.

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.