Possibly one of the best things to have ever happen to a brown girl, the type of guy who appears to not give a damn about anyone but secretly is the most amazing boyfriend. The type that gives "just because roses", changes his flaws, leaves notes on his girlfriend's pillow and keeps all of her notes. One in a million.

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.