A homosexual (often times black) who acts in an over-the-top non-feminine manner. He often times embrasses the thug persona, while at the same time has sex with other men. This front is often used as a defense mechanism.

A jack off buddy (from 'cum' /'come', meaning 'semen', and 'companion'); a friend that you get together with for sessions of solo or mutual masturbation
Variant of: cumpanion (from 'companion' & 'cum'); jack off buddy & wank bud & JO buddy
Similar to: fuck buddy