This is used with first time kissers !! The first kiss is to see if they're down. Second kiss is done by the opposite person. Third kiss is for the hell of it.

v. collectively or individually finding someone/something to blame for a problem, as opposed to brainstorming which connotes finding solutions to a problem

n. the act of finding someone/something to blame for a problem

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A method used for first time kissers. 1st Kiss is to see if the person is down. 2nd Kiss is done by the opposite person. 3rd Kiss is for the hell of it.