To date somebody just by texting

n. The birth name of somebody who has changed their name. Most commonly attributed to trans people, but can be attributed to any person who has changed their name. (sometimes written as two words: dead name)

v. 1. To call somebody by their deadname.
v. 2. To out somebody's deadname to the public.

a guy goin out on date with his girl but they at home texting while the guy comes up with the places and situation

Arranging to text someone at a certain time.