The act of chasing someone through a country club to pull their hair out and call them names. From the episode of the hit TV series "The Real Housewives of New Jersey" which showcases star Danielle Staub's encounter with one of the members of the Manzo family.

A portmanteau of carpe diem, a Latin phrase that means “Seize the Day!” and DM, which stands for Direct Messages. This word means seizing the day via DMs.