Refers to any fraternity member who revives Only dry hand jobs from half way decent looking girls. The spencer usually wears glasses and can be spotted walking around campus with a doucher acoustic guitar. Word on the street is a spencer will eat ass if given the opportunity.

A portmanteau of carpe diem, a Latin phrase that means “Seize the Day!” and DM, which stands for Direct Messages. This word means seizing the day via DMs.