When you talk to girls, but they don't talk to you.

People stuck in the "box", short for the Shaheer Paradox, are lonely and insecure so they hit up hoes and brag that they got "bitches". They will never know if they are in the box until they admit to themselves that they really don't have bitches.

The Shaheer Paradox is a dangerous and lonely place to be in, if your homie stuck in the box, it's your duty to make sure that he knows that he ain't got bitches.

When you eat dirt for the first time and leave your family to build a shack in the woods