by NiSHA..hit ma aim November 14, 2009
verb - when a person acts for oneβs self and/or oneβs people as best one can with the tools available with neither selfless or selfish intentions thereby removing positive and negative connotations from the choices made and thereby creating a third option which takes relativism into account. Selfing is the process by which one pursues their personal and community well-being while functioning in social and physical life that does not ignore large and same scale ethical challenges as one tries to do the best they can with the tools available to them.
Ex1: βIt blows my mind how much I've said no to people who've asked me to help with things or give them things these last few months but selfing like this has helped me get back to who I was before I got into that bad relationship."
Ex2: βYeah Iβm selfing right now with all the money I'm saving from my job and budgeting to stay on top of things so my living situation is almost at the point where Iβll never have to worry about not having a place to stay ever again and Iβm even getting a good work/life balance; if my parents would just stop calling me every single day, every other is enough mom. β
Ex3: "Sometimes I can't believe I keep the rent paid, the utilities and internet connected, food on my family's table and my medical insurance up to date and can still go out and have fun with my job and budget while I navigate the confusing world of end stage capitalism and try and find a balance within my ethics and but I think I'm being pretty decent at selfing so far.β
Ex2: βYeah Iβm selfing right now with all the money I'm saving from my job and budgeting to stay on top of things so my living situation is almost at the point where Iβll never have to worry about not having a place to stay ever again and Iβm even getting a good work/life balance; if my parents would just stop calling me every single day, every other is enough mom. β
Ex3: "Sometimes I can't believe I keep the rent paid, the utilities and internet connected, food on my family's table and my medical insurance up to date and can still go out and have fun with my job and budget while I navigate the confusing world of end stage capitalism and try and find a balance within my ethics and but I think I'm being pretty decent at selfing so far.β
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by dancinbutterfly February 17, 2019
the act of saying something ridiculous, with absolute self-righteousness behind it, only further proving how much of an idiot the person actually is.
can also be used as a verb - self'd
can also be used as a verb - self'd
abowl4me is doing some selfing again on the green board.
by grooveflapper October 04, 2007
by Essex Grub May 13, 2005
To comment on a post with something completely unrelated, and attempting to change the focus to yourself.
"I shattered my femur saving kittens from the 50th story of a building on fire. That was a lot of burning stairs."
Selfing Comment: "Well I once got a paper cut filling out the crossword on the Stairmaster, so I totally know how you feel. I had a really rough day."
Selfing Comment: "Well I once got a paper cut filling out the crossword on the Stairmaster, so I totally know how you feel. I had a really rough day."
by bigashs2 December 12, 2011
May 25 trending
- 1. Watermelon Sugar
- 2. Ghetto Spread
- 3. Girls who eat carrots
- 4. sorority squat
- 5. Durk
- 6. Momala
- 7. knocking
- 8. Dog shot
- 9. sputnik
- 10. guvy
- 11. knockin'
- 12. nuke the fridge
- 13. obnoxion
- 14. Eee-o eleven
- 15. edward 40 hands
- 16. heels up
- 17. columbus
- 18. ain't got
- 19. UrbDic
- 20. yak shaving
- 21. Rush B Cyka Blyat
- 22. Pimp Nails
- 23. Backpedaling
- 24. Anol
- 25. got that
- 26. by the way
- 27. Wetter than an otter's pocket
- 28. soy face
- 29. TSIF
- 30. georgia rose

