A a term used to describe that is gay but is generally used/accepted by straight people. The gayness can stem from a design in a product, a feature in a thing or an aspect of the thing. When a straight person interacts with this thing it arouses a minor suspicion that they might be gay.

The product may not however involve anything to do with gay sex or other things that are blatantly gay.

A portmanteau of carpe diem, a Latin phrase that means “Seize the Day!” and DM, which stands for Direct Messages. This word means seizing the day via DMs.