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Known as: Save. Your. Self. Black. Men. A group of straight Black American males that have broken free from the chains created by The Black Gynocracy. Now the goal of SYSBM is simply just to save as many young black males as they can so they can be free and live happy lives.

So SYSBM encourages them to just get their money up, and date outside their race with non-black, and non-feminist women. Then integrate themselves into more organized and traditional cultures. Possibly even moving to a whole new country if they have too. So that they can truly have REAL freedom, and live their lives in peace. Thats all. They dont hate black women, and they dont hate white people, nor do they care what they do. SYSBM encourages for American white men, to be with black American women and make them happy. Because these women have been trained and programmed for generations by racist white people, to ONLY be in the interest of white men, and to destroy anything that the straight black men try to build at all costs. So sadly the American Black Woman is NOT the Black Man's woman anymore. They simply only love white men or only respect non-black men due to their slave programming. So the American Black Man is really on his own...
King watches his black father gets taken to the cleaners in divorce and child support court by his black mother. Then watches as his father struggles to get his life back together again. Unable to get a job because nobody wants to hire his father, and he ends up living on the streets. King see how sad and broken his father is.

King's mother says, "Black men aint shit."

King says, "Mama, Then Ima go SYSBM. So I dont end up like daddy."

Kings mother, "Boy, you gonna date outside your race? I thought you liked black girls?"

King says, "Sorry mama, but black girls are mean to me, and they dont like black men. Only Latina and white girls like me..."

Kings mother says, "Fine, go date out then..."

King says, "Thanks mama!"
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A group of crybaby black men who, instead of fixing whatever thing happened to them in past relationships by talking to a therapist, would rather hide their inadequacy behind the facade of black women treating them incorrectly. They will excuse their need to date outside of their own race with sorry examples of black women in media being happy to express themselves, which points to the overall misogyny of the group, by saying that they only do it for the white male gaze. Put simply, a group insecure of their own masculinity and leadership skills to the point where they hate their own women. It's sad really...
Girl, SYSBM, Ha! Lets get into the tea.
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A group of Black men who blame women in their own race for everything bad that has happened to them and the world itself. You can mostly find this group worshiping non-black women and encouraging black men to get passports solely to travel to other countries. This group has even claimed they’re “going to create a new race and a new black community”. These men are deemed outcasts and overall pathetic by many.
Person 1: “What is SYSBM?”

Person 2: “Oh...just a group of incels dw.”
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A bunch of odd balls on YouTube who hide behind avatars proclaiming that their saving themselves from black women and dysfunctional black communities by dating interracially or internationally.
"On YouTube, there a literally a group of guys calling themselves SYSBM who think all their problems in life will be fixed just by dating outside of their race."
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the male counterpart to the divest movement. A group of people who seek proximity to non-blacks with the belief they will 'save' them. SYSBM members form as a result of rejection, internet indoctrination, and/or unresolved trauma. They typically portray their own demographic as benevolent and their counterparts as subhuman.

prominent figures leading their flock into delusion, dissatisfaction or eternal loneliness include StephIsCold and The Thinking Man's Templar.
person 1: why is he so hyperfixated with black women?
person 2: oh, he's just an SYSBM nut.
by guy18011 June 30, 2021
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the male counterpart to the divest movement. A group of people who seek proximity to non-blacks with the belief they will 'save' them. SYSBM members form as a result of rejection, internet indoctrination, and/or unresolved trauma. They typically portray their own demographic as benevolent and their counterparts as subhuman.

prominent figures leading their flock into delusion, dissatisfaction or eternal loneliness include StephIsCold and The Thinking Man's Templar.
person 1: why's that guy constantly babbling about black women
person 2: it's just a SYSBM weirdo
by guy18011 June 30, 2021
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