To shut the actual f*** up

n. The birth name of somebody who has changed their name. Most commonly attributed to trans people, but can be attributed to any person who has changed their name. (sometimes written as two words: dead name)

v. 1. To call somebody by their deadname.
v. 2. To out somebody's deadname to the public.

Abbreviation of Shut the Actual Fuck Up.

a way to say stfu while talking with people

To tell someone to stfu!