Can tell them apart except for their voices and their hair colour. They are both cool, and Heidi is abusive to her boyfriend. Rory is ok and so is heidi. They are cool, and creative, and stuff. Not really sure what to say. They combined have a minimum of 1000 texts in the group chat per day. Yeah.

Briefly, "the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own." Originally from the Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows, which has a lot more beautiful neologism definitions like this you might enjoy.