A hybrid between a womanizer and the realization of 'I-could-do-so-much-better-than-this-piece-of-shit'!
Basically, the guy who seemed interesting at first, but soon turns out to be the stepping stone to something better. A wake-up call for the inner romantic. A necessary failure in the ever-challenging dating game.

1. an act of becoming fully aware of something as a fact.

2. the fulfillment or achievement of something desired or anticipated.

The moment when you come to the solution that you messed that f*** up

The apex of becoming or being real. To be known for being your own individual self, rather than playing the role of what everyone desires you to be. Not a mold of society's expectations. Becoming "realized" requires utmost loyalty and the constant reality of life. Life is not to be lived a dream.

to finally understand

Happens when you smoke marijuana for the first time. It’s the feeling of anxiety but also the feeling soothingness at the same time

A pretentious and pseudo-intelligent way of saying "realized."