When a man becomes involved with a woman and realizes it's a mistake but stays. This is a two-part reference to the film Ghostbusters, in which Bill Murray's character gets involved with a woman that goes from average to heavily seductive until she turns into a hound of hell through Zhoule. Ray Parker Jr. wrote the film's theme. "RPJ" is a reference to the dilemma that is found in this scenario, when you stay involved because, as Ray put it, "Bustin' makes me feel good."

When you eat dirt for the first time and leave your family to build a shack in the woods