The act of being consumed by the color purple to an amount so extreme that it is considered extremely attractive. Purple, or any shades of violet, possess levels of hues which ignite libido within the wearer (or consumer), as well as the outside viewer. Having purple sex energy is only found within those who commit to the shades of sex, and perform under the guise of having said energy. Purple, or any shade relating to violet, is a considerably attractive color; therefore, having purple sex energy means you are undoubtedly the sexiest mother fucker to ever roam the planet Earth.

In simplicity: You wear purple, and look sexy while doing so.

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.