1)It happens when you are on a first date with a person and they are just "so nice" that you are so scared and are convinced they are secretly planning your demise

2) When you are smothered by retail associated at an upscale clothing store because they think your spending tons of money there and kiss up to you HARDCORE

3)When someone you barely know pisses you off, and then it turns out that they were actually really nice and you feel like an ass...

3) When someone is just so nice to you, you are reduced to a state of shock...

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.