A situation where a girl kisses you one night on a whim (or a guy) and then ignores you a few days later.....and then gives you the friends talk, and then goes out with some other guy or girl totally leading you on. All ultimately for the sake of a bit of an ego boost.

A portmanteau of carpe diem, a Latin phrase that means “Seize the Day!” and DM, which stands for Direct Messages. This word means seizing the day via DMs.