when a person is so overweight that their life is endangered. when celulite is eating away at the muscle tissue and turning it into a jelly like substance forming the look of lumpy gravy under the skin.

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.