Making people do what you want.

To alter a persons perception put them on the side of the abuser instead of as the victim blurring the line between right and wrong no matter how you change it in my mind it's still wrong.

Someone who is well calculated and a polished liar. Manipulators are usually undetectable, and some may not act for personal gain but for a larger goal. Some do not put other's in danger for the sake of the gain, but it is common that they do. A true manipulator's personality is nothing similar to the way they are seen by others, and is more often than not nonexistent.
Manipulators often are a new level of insane.

A little fucking liar who tries to make friends by tricking people into hating each other, and makes people believe his/her story to make people hate another person(s)

is to have control over others by having the ability to influence their behavior(emotions) and their actions so things can go in their favor

one who consistently atempts to make personal gains at others expenses by means of manipulation

Someone who acts in a secret or dishonest way especially for self-gain. Devious.