Smart, witty, funny. Heart of gold. She'll be there no matter what. Shell comfort you tell everything's ok and still feel as if shes not done enough. Shell repay you back a thousand times over for doing one thing for her. Shes the light in anyone's day. If you have a lilly, hold onto them/her.

v. collectively or individually finding someone/something to blame for a problem, as opposed to brainstorming which connotes finding solutions to a problem

n. the act of finding someone/something to blame for a problem

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