When you eat dirt for the first time and leave your family to build a shack in the woods

1-Slang name used by African American youths in the DC, Maryland and Virginia area to describe a black mail with long hair that acts heterosexual however is suspected of being a queen.

2-Typically Lurch is a "Big talking" ladies man that no one ever sees with a woman.

huge male person (Addams Family)

A tall, gangly, timid male who in generally inept at accomplishing any task with grace or elegance. Very rarely socially presentable but usually entertains with his awkwardness.

a massive person- really tall and lanky

To leave in tough predicament or spot, not reliable, put someone in a bad position