Love: You feel good to have your partner in life. You don't have sex with your partner too much, just maybe every now and then. You take care of them no matter what, even if it means risking your life.

Lust: You like their hot body more than their personality. You have sex almost all the time with your partner. You think that erotica is more important than other stuff. When your partner is upset, you just distract them with sex and don't talk about your partner's feelings.

When you eat dirt for the first time and leave your family to build a shack in the woods