To take the L so hard that Steven J. Leone comes out and hits a fat turnover on you

v. collectively or individually finding someone/something to blame for a problem, as opposed to brainstorming which connotes finding solutions to a problem

n. the act of finding someone/something to blame for a problem

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When one is asking to roleplay and that said person is either ignored or overlooked by another, said person is then overlooked and another person asking to roleplay roleplays gets a roleplay first