When a man takes a pen and shoves it down his urethra or pee hole. If you want to take it further you can make the pen leak into your dick so that the next time you cum it is black or red.

This could also mean sounding done by any member of the game ‘Splatoon’

A man who messes around with other men, but no one would ever know by looking or talking to him. Used by gay black men to identify masculine gay men or DL Brothas.