i really like you but i'm too scared to tell you

v. collectively or individually finding someone/something to blame for a problem, as opposed to brainstorming which connotes finding solutions to a problem

n. the act of finding someone/something to blame for a problem

(from a TV ad for HD television)

I really like your big indigo titties Susie; they taste yum.

I really like you but I'm to scared to tell you