Hardcore tryhard is pretty much polar opposite of Wannabe tryhard, while latter only cares about illusion of being good, Hardcore tryhard cares about the actual skill, best way to tell the difference between these two, is the fact that wannabe will usually ragequit when they start losing, and most likely will talk trash about/to you later, while hardcore will usually learns from their failure, and either remain silent or tell you something along the lines: GG, Well played.

When you eat dirt for the first time and leave your family to build a shack in the woods