The world Hallm translates to Mother, and is used to describe someone who is a mother to someone regardless if they are a woman or not. This can apply to all relatives regardless of gender, and can also be used to describe a closely cherished friend in the same manner.

v. collectively or individually finding someone/something to blame for a problem, as opposed to brainstorming which connotes finding solutions to a problem

n. the act of finding someone/something to blame for a problem

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