Vb. Originating from Swazi mountain communities who celebrate an insatiable desire to mate with strangers in gratitude for alcoholic gifts. Named after Hakili one of the African tribesmen. So used to describe people who hook up with anything when wasted.

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.