GayIsMyWay.webs.com is a website that is considered a safe haven for the gay, bi-sexual, transgeder, and supporting community to talk with one another, seek advise, help eachother, so on and so forth. It's not widely known, but it is amongst those who sought something of the sort.

v. collectively or individually finding someone/something to blame for a problem, as opposed to brainstorming which connotes finding solutions to a problem

n. the act of finding someone/something to blame for a problem

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