Word Origin: a gay ka bob originates from shakira nancy and jonna from Bard highschool early college in NYC...it refers to a gay man on a stick ( which is an overtly gay person) and when shortened becomes a gay-ka-bob...(meat on a stick)

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.

A gay-ka-bob is any person male or female that is prone to or at risk for homosexual activities. not literal homosexuality of course, but the figurative type which includes but is not limited to oddnessand overall queerness.