Word Origin: a gay ka bob originates from shakira nancy and jonna from Bard highschool early college in NYC...it refers to a gay man on a stick ( which is an overtly gay person) and when shortened becomes a gay-ka-bob...(meat on a stick)

When you're being horny (especially around friends) and as a result shame ensues.

A gay-ka-bob is any person male or female that is prone to or at risk for homosexual activities. not literal homosexuality of course, but the figurative type which includes but is not limited to oddnessand overall queerness.