Frymailing is sending mass emails on a Friday after 5pm. No one takes mass mail seriously, when it is sent on a Friday evening. So in terms of etiquette, it is totally okay to Frymail, as long as it is done after 5pm on a Friday. Likewise, it is completely acceptable to immediately delete a Frymail, without offending the sender.

The two states of being are as a human being, or a hungry ghost. Semi-regularly you need to ask yourself which you are. Sometimes it is human. Others, alas, it is hungry ghost.

The hungry ghost seeks validity outside of themselves. Someone pining for an indifferent ex is a hungry ghost. Someone who arrives alone at 6:30 on Saturday night to a pub is probably a hungry ghost. Obsessive checking of mobile phones, chat sites or networks are clear signs that one is a hungry ghost.

The best thing to do is just stay home and ride it out. Read a book. Find some good clean fun.