The act of using someone of all they got, then dipping out.

A man who messes around with other men, but no one would ever know by looking or talking to him. Used by gay black men to identify masculine gay men or DL Brothas.

When a kleptomaniac borderline alcoholic steals all your quarters and uses them to buy alcohol that she wont let you have. Than proceeds to pulverize your self esteem and laugh at her own jokes with her "character laced" annoying laugh.