This person will change your life. She is the most admiring friend you can have. She will always be that person you can go to with everything and not have to worry about being judged. She's a hustler and a wifey that men crave. But don't take her for granted, once you do her wrong she will never look at you the same. She will for sure forgive but never forget. She's an amazing mom and will do anything for her kid. Let's not forget how emotional she can get even off of a chick flick so don't show her anything sentimental. Take her for a drink and you will have the best time of your life.

The two states of being are as a human being, or a hungry ghost. Semi-regularly you need to ask yourself which you are. Sometimes it is human. Others, alas, it is hungry ghost.

The hungry ghost seeks validity outside of themselves. Someone pining for an indifferent ex is a hungry ghost. Someone who arrives alone at 6:30 on Saturday night to a pub is probably a hungry ghost. Obsessive checking of mobile phones, chat sites or networks are clear signs that one is a hungry ghost.

The best thing to do is just stay home and ride it out. Read a book. Find some good clean fun.